A month late but that's fine. I've been sick for a while.
A year ago in July I went to a psychiatrist for the first time. I am so thankful that my fiance pushed me to go.
Through all my years of life, 29 now, not one "professional" has assumed that I had anything wrong with me besides 'Autism.' Which, granted, I do have; but not everything stems just from Autism alone.
I have been suicidally depressed since I was about 12 years old. For a very long time I had been in a dark place with no way out. I felt suffocated, like I couldn't breathe. Every little thing was my fault because I was never good enough, smart enough, strong enough. I was a lost cause. A waste of space that had no right to any kind of happiness.
Useless.
Worthless.
Stupid.
Corrupt and evil, lacking that innocence that other kids seemed to have that had been stolen from me when I was too young to protect myself.
Before this I was unstable. I don't know how anyone can just gloss over Trauma/Stress induced Hallucinations and pass it off as 'normal' but that had been my life for a long time. Hearing voices, seeing things that weren't there, thinking others hated me because I hated myself. It was terrifying, confusing, and lonely.
The worst part? No one believed me. They thought I was doing it for 'attention.' Which just made me feel guilty for bothering people with my issues. So I never talked about them.
But for the first time since I can remember; I'm happy. The medication that I was told to take has given me back my sense of self. There are no more night terrors and no more fits of incomprehensible panic over something no one else can see or hear. I can finally breathe.
Slowly but surely I'm building myself back up as a person. I
am worthy of love and affection. I have the
right to exist. And no one can tell me otherwise. I have friends and family that love me for who I am, even if I'm still putting the pieces back together.
I can't apologize for who I used to be, because that person is still a part of me. But I can promise that I am moving forward and changing who I was into something better.
Thank you to everyone who has stuck by me through the years. I love you all.